Five Things Women Really Want for Valentine’s Day That Money Can’t Buy
Valentine’s Day can feel like a minefield for men. You want to make the woman you love feel special. You want her to feel cherished, chosen, desired.And yet, if you’re honest, things might not be feeling easy between you right now. Maybe intimacy has gone dry.Maybe...
From Crappy to Ideal: Why Men Choose to Explore Tantra (and the Surprising Thing it Says About Them)
I admit it: that title was a little click baity. There are no "crappy" reasons or "ideal" reasons for a man to explore Tantra. But, I'll bet you put yourself somewhere on the judgement spectrum, because that's what we do in our culture. And that judgement can be hard...
The Forgotten Dakinis: Ancient Healers Who Helped Men Return to Themselves
Long before modern therapy or medicine, there were temples hidden along the riverbanks of the ancient Indus Valley — sanctuaries of stillness and breath where warriors came to lay down their armor. There, waiting for them, were the Dakinis — women of devotion and...
Why This Particular Love Making Myth is so Dangerous
Let’s pull the covers off one of the most dangerous myths ever whispered between the sheets: “Men want sex more than women.”Oh darling, this myth is more than just wrong—it’s toxic. It’s a libido-killer, a passion-flattener, and a sneaky little saboteur of intimacy....
Sexual Myths Women Must Stop Believing (Especially After 50!)
Tired of the tired myths telling you your sex life is over after menopause? Darling, it’s just beginning. Let’s undress the lies and reclaim your erotic flame. Whether you’re 35 or 75, your desire is sacred. Here’s why it matters—and what you can do if your partner’s...
Now that Midlife is Here, What Does Making Love Mean to You—Personally?
When you hear the phrase “making love,” what comes to mind? For many, it's a phrase loaded with expectation—shaped by a lifetime of messages from culture, family, religion, and past relationships. In this article I explore how that messaging could be infiltrating your...
Are You in Your Feminine Power? A Midlife Woman’s Guide to Flow, Rhythm, and Radiance
True feminine power isn’t a copy of masculine strength. Especially in menopause, a woman’s wisdom distills into slower rhythms, deeper sensuality, and communal grace. Learn six pillars of authentic feminine power—and why softness is not weakness but untapped...
The Sanctuary of Intimacy: A Tantric Toolkit for Men Over 50
What if your most profound sexual experiences weren’t behind you—but ahead? Discover how your midlife body is uniquely designed to savor deeper, more soulful connection through the art of slow, sacred love making.One of the greatest gifts of being over 50 is the quiet...
The Sanctuary of Enjoyment: A Tantric Meditation You Can Practice Anywhere
Meditation doesn’t always happen on a cushion. Sometimes, the most powerful meditations happen when you open to the senses and let the world take you. This week, I share a walking Tantric meditation I experienced in the desert after rain—and how anyone, anywhere, can...
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