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How to Make Love Like the Top 1% of Men
What sets the top 1% of lovers apart? It’s not just skill—it’s a deeper level of awareness, control, and connection that most men never learn. If you want to unlock a new dimension of pleasure, intimacy, and stamina, start mastering these three powerful practices. 1....
Tantra For Women: Three Things to When to Do When You’re Exhausted Being Your Own Man
Have you ever felt like the weight of the world is on your shoulders? Between work, home responsibilities, and caring for loved ones, it can feel like there’s no room left for you. So many women are caught in a cycle of doing it all—“being their own man”—and while...
An Apology to the Wounded Warrior Within Every Man
I want to apologize to you, beautiful man. There is a wounded warrior within every man in our western culture. This is because we have pulled the rug out from you, calling out the toxic patriarchy of the 60s and 70s, and haven't given you any alternative for what it...
I Have Never Had an Orgasm. Just . . . Help.
I’m 37-years old, and I have never had an orgasm. Just . . . help.Melissa, Sedona, AZ Beautiful Soul, Melissa, It has to take guts to reach out for help when sex is everywhere in our culture, and yet nowhere. Movies. Pop songs. Commercials. Internet porn. Even...
I’m an Aging Man: Who Would Want Me?
Dear Dakini Leah,I just turned 64, and my whole world is turning upside down. I feel depressed, like I just want to go to sleep and not wake up again. It feels like this has been creeping on me for a long time. Who would want to date me? I have debilitating arthritis,...
Pulling Back the Curtain: The Powerful Message This Woman Heard from Her Yoni
Names and identifying details have been changed to protect client privacy. This article is a written about a combination of clients, and overall it represents a typical client's experience. What Marcy hoped to hear Marcy is a reiki therapist, a mother of three in her...
I Really Like this Woman. How do I keep her?
Dear Dakini Leah,I’m new to your site, and don’t even really know what Tantra is. I’m only 20 years old, but I really love my girlfriend. I mean, like, she’s the one for me. Other girls I’ve dated have broken my heart, and I don’t want that to happen this time. How do...
Pubic Hair: Should It Stay or Should it Go?
Dear Dakini Leah,What is pubic hair for? I mean, evolutionally? What purpose does it serve? I’m not interested in removing it, but my husband would like me to. He doesn’t really pressure me, but he makes it clear he would prefer I get rid of it. I’m not going to shave...
How to Use Sex As Medicine
Have you ever experienced sex as medicine? I’m willing to bet you’ve stumbled on a deeply emotional love making that left you feeling transformed and healed. Maybe that experience was couched for you as a tender, unspeakable experience with an orgasmic response you...