Radical Honesty After 50: Gather the Gems
Last week I did a Facebook Live about seven secrets to having the best sex of your life after 50. The first secret was radical honesty. Then a gentleman in the comments gave me a reason to go much deeper into what I mean by that. Sex, he pointed out, has been...
The 4 Great Love Archetypes: Which One Is Running Your Relationship?
There are at least four people sleeping in your bed. Possibly eight. Before you start wondering whether you somehow missed a very interesting party, let me explain. Every intimate relationship moves through what I call the 4 Great Love Archetypes: Lover, Friend,...
The Unexpected Benefits of Yoni Steaming
How a simple monthly ritual became my gateway to inner wisdom, sacred stillness, and the quiet truth of my body Yoni steaming, for me, is not about setting aside time to be sexual. It is not even primarily about building my erotic potential as I age, although I...
Why Women Need Safe Circles to Speak the Truth About Sexuality
By Dakini Leah, CTSE, CMedT, B.A. Psy. There is something quietly heartbreaking happening in our culture. Women are aching to talk about sex. Not just the mechanics of it. Not the glossy magazine version. Not the performative version offered up by movies or social...
Sex as Medicine: The Healing Power of Conscious Lovemaking for Couples Over 50
Discover how conscious lovemaking becomes a powerful healing force for couples over 50. Learn how intimacy, presence, and pleasure can transform emotional pain into deep connection.”
The Epstein Files, Sexual Shadow, and the Sacred Power We’ve Forgotten
There are moments in culture when something buried rises to the surface—and asks us, collectively, to grow up. The release of the Epstein files is one of those moments. It is not easy to look at.It is not comfortable to talk about.And yet… turning away is exactly what...
The Real Reason Men Fear the First Kiss (And How to Handle Rejection Like a King)
Let’s talk about the moment before the first kiss. You know the one. You’re standing close enough to smell her perfume.There’s a pause in the conversation.The air gets a little electric. And inside your head, a thousand thoughts start racing: Is she into me?What if...
Why Great Sex Begins Long Before the Bedroom
Couples often assume their sex life begins when they walk into the bedroom. Lights dim. Clothes come off. The show begins. But here’s the inconvenient truth: by the time you get to the bedroom, the emotional conditions for great sex have already been decided. Great...
Five Things Women Really Want for Valentine’s Day That Money Can’t Buy
Valentine’s Day can feel like a minefield for men. You want to make the woman you love feel special. You want her to feel cherished, chosen, desired.And yet, if you’re honest, things might not be feeling easy between you right now. Maybe intimacy has gone dry.Maybe...
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