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An Apology to the Wounded Warrior Within Every Man

I want to apologize to you, beautiful man. There is a wounded warrior within every man in our western culture. This is because we have pulled the rug out from you, calling out the toxic patriarchy of the 60s and 70s, and haven't given you any alternative for what it...

I Have Never Had an Orgasm. Just . . . Help.

I Have Never Had an Orgasm. Just . . . Help.

I’m 37-years old, and I have never had an orgasm. Just . . . help.Melissa, Sedona, AZ Beautiful Soul, Melissa, It has to take guts to reach out for help when sex is everywhere in our culture, and yet nowhere. Movies. Pop songs. Commercials. Internet porn. Even...

I’m an Aging Man: Who Would Want Me?

I’m an Aging Man: Who Would Want Me?

Dear Dakini Leah,I just turned 64, and my whole world is turning upside down. I feel depressed, like I just want to go to sleep and not wake up again. It feels like this has been creeping on me for a long time. Who would want to date me? I have debilitating arthritis,...

I Really Like this Woman. How do I keep her?

I Really Like this Woman. How do I keep her?

Dear Dakini Leah,I’m new to your site, and don’t even really know what Tantra is. I’m only 20 years old, but I really love my girlfriend. I mean, like, she’s the one for me. Other girls I’ve dated have broken my heart, and I don’t want that to happen this time. How do...

How to Use Sex As Medicine

How to Use Sex As Medicine

Have you ever experienced sex as medicine? I’m willing to bet you’ve stumbled on a deeply emotional love making that left you feeling transformed and healed. Maybe that experience was couched for you as a tender, unspeakable experience with an orgasmic response you...

How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner

How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner

June is Effective Communications Month and June 6 is National Sex Day. So it’s the perfect time to think about how you and your partner communicate about the s-word. Talking about sex--what you like, what you don’t like, what you fantasize about, what sex means to...

Sensual Woman Podcast – E1 Definition of a Sensual Woman

What a Sensual Woman Is, Why it_s Important to Be One, and What_s in the WayDownload Sensual Woman Podcast - E1 - Definition of a Sensual Woman, Why it's Important to be One, and What's in the Way Tycee Belcastro, M.A., LMFT Dakini Leah, Tantric Sexuality Educator...