What sets the top 1% of lovers apart? It’s not just skill—it’s a deeper level of awareness, control, and connection that most men never learn. If you want to unlock a new dimension of pleasure, intimacy, and stamina, start mastering these three powerful practices.
1. Use the Self-Cultivation Practice to Delay Ejaculation While Her Sexual Energy Builds
Did you know that the average man ejaculates about six minutes after penetration? This isn’t nearly enough time for most women to warm to their full body/mind/spirit arousal and really surrender to you. The best lovers don’t rush—they allow their partner’s desire to fully awaken while maintaining their own arousal. By practicing self-cultivation techniques, such as breathwork and muscle control, you can delay ejaculation and ride the waves of pleasure without losing energy. The longer you can stay present without release, the more her sexual energy intensifies, leading to mind-body-spirit satisfaction for both of you.
2. Soften Your Heart to Hers with Erotic Meditation
Great lovers don’t just focus on physical technique—they create emotional and energetic harmony. Through erotic meditation, you learn to synchronize your breath, presence, and heart energy with hers. This deepens intimacy and makes sex feel more connected, soulful, and electrifying. Try gazing into her eyes, breathing together, and mentally opening your heart as you touch—these small shifts make a massive impact.
3. Take Advantage of Soft-Penis Times to Build Energy Communication in the Genitals and Heart
Older men have a real advantage over younger men when it comes to soft lingam. The most advanced lovers understand that pleasure and connection don’t end when an erection softens. Instead of seeing it as a break, the top 1% of lovers use these moments to build deeper intimacy–which is the crux of love making. With gentle touch, slow movement, and awareness, you create an energy exchange between your genitals and heart, strengthening your connection and making the next wave of arousal even more powerful. This is the secret to unlocking full-body, sacred pleasure that reflects Who You Really Are.
Master these techniques, and you’ll experience intimacy, pleasure, and confidence on a level most lovers never experience. Want to dive deeper? See the events page for the next Reclaim Your Rise live class and start your journey to mastery.
I’ve helped over a thousand people find the deep love they crave and deserve. Come and be part of it. Call me now for your complimentary discovery session. 970-242-5094
Much love, Dakini Leah
CTSE, CMedT, B.A. Psy
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